when people and/or loved ones die, and why we feel like we went with them…sometimes more than a mourning – what is this, exactly?
we all have loved ones who die a physical death. some of those loved ones have a different impact on us than others; some of those loved ones were like our best friend, our kindred soul, our “other half”, our saving grace and so on. the nature and intensity of the pre-existing 3d relationship (which, by the way includes an automatic 5d relationships that we are either aware of or unaware of – most of us have no clue about the 5d or how our relationships correlate to it; here is a quick basic reference: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Five-dimensional_space), will determine what we feel after the person leaves their physical body. I am not going to write about life after death/the afterlife and the purpose of this blog is not for debate on that, but rather a more scientific or physics-based approach to understand the human condition pertaining to human 3d physical death and close relationships.
I have worked with over one thousand people. on all subjects and matters. understanding, seeing and translating 5d and beyond information is what I get paid to do. whether someone understands “what” they are seeing me for or not. I am gathering that information from an intangible place, and looping it in with “facts” and “logic”. I digress. of those many persons I have worked with, some of their initial reasons for seeing me were related to a feeling of personal incapacitation after a very close loved one died. for the sake of trying to keep things simple, I will make references to two specific patient sessions.
person A is a brilliant finance professional. their job is to understand numbers and analytics. this person, like nearly all of my patients, is someone I would consider to be an “outlier” or Unicorn energy. you can see some of my other blogs in which I discuss this energy i.e. (why we are attacked). person A came to me with a host of concerns, all of which, however, seemed to present themselves after their very best friend in the universe died. person A had always been highly functional, social, well-traveled, and had taken care of their entire family and beyond. I would consider this person to be optimally functional in life. at the same time, person A’s energy was what I consider to be “off the charts”. the frequency of this person was so, so high. high to the point where if they were to drop to 1% of their overall vibrational capacity, they would still be higher than everyone else around them. what this looks like can as well be described in my blog (why we are attacked). anyhow, being the Unicorn energy that this person was/is, they met the only other half or what they considered to be EQUAL representation of their energy about 30 years ago. let’s call that person person A1. person A1 was a great deal older than them, but the moment they met it seemed as if they knew one another forever. it was a human connection that superseded what person A could understand, especially with their logic-based daily “purpose” and capacity. this connection was the most important of person A’s life. person A described to me what I know to be a *twin flame connection. this type of connection is described (and, in my opinion, abused in new age text, so be careful what you read) and understood as the other half or a strong piece of a person’s actual soul. if we are part of the general collective, it may be easier to find pieces of our own soul strongly reflected in others — because we are all resonating on a similar plane. but for person A, person A1 was also an “outlier” — a Unicorn energy, and it was the first time this person felt truly touched by another. this is very different from “feeling different” from everyone else – what this looks like is actually a template of energy that is so different from those around them, that it can be like finding a matching snowflake. so when person A1 died, person A went with them. what does this mean?
as I explain above, we are more than 3d. person A, being extremely analytical and fact-driven, was only consciously aware of 3d not 5d. the fact of the matter was, however, that person A and person A1 VERY much had a 5d connection and back and forth relationship. though it was not conscious, it was STILL HAPPENING in 5d. other dimensional fields are JUST as valid as 3d – which is the only field we can “see” or “prove”. and as humans, we feel that if we can’t see something it doesn’t exist. that is the level of our general collective consciousness. and it is fortunately expanding beyond that now.
due to person A’s lack of CONSCIOUS awareness of their 5d relationship to their loved one (bear in mind, their higher consciousness was of course VERY aware of their 5d relationship – this is why we have “strange dreams” and so on), a hysteria of confusion set in when person A1 died in 3d form. the hysteria of confusion was born from the fact that the DOMINANT aspect of their connection was, very much NOT, in fact, in 3d at all. but 3d is the basis of so many OTHER relationships. it was different due in part to the fact that their vibration frequencies were outliers – i.e. so different from the norm and so much higher vibrationally – to the point that they themselves in 3d form actually resonated at a frequency much closer to 5d than the average human. so that particular connection would have existed more so in 5d. the basis of it would have been way more from a 5d consciousness than a 3 consciousness. because person A was not yet cognitively aware of what 5d even was, or the fact that we can indeed connect to others in that way or how, a lack of info served as the initial part of heartache and pain. once we were a few hours deep into the session, and based on many intangible pieces of “evidential proof” (which is my job to present — to present the unintelligible and the generally inaccessible to people who have access to “everything else”) person A understood 5d and how their connection to person A1 had existed there. this cleaned up some understanding of much of the emotional pain that they were feeling because it helped to explain why it was so intense. then, I had to explain what was actually happening on a physics level — outside of consciousness on ANY dimensional plane.
the physics aspect of it included the fact that we all have cords. we are all made like electronics (read any of my blogs on cording to understand this better). so when we connect, we are actually corded to an energy. just like we can send a text to China, the only thing in between our phones are frequencies. when a human dies a physical death, we can still connect to that which we were connecting to THROUGH their human vessel in the first place. their essence. when we are over corded to another human and then they die, there is still a cord attaching us to the unseen dimensions. while this cord is active, and depending on how strong it is (for example person A and person A1 had one of the strongest connections two human physical beings could ever have – due to many of the facts I outlined above), we feel it until it is ACKNOWLEDGED and then released. the issue arises when person A1, for example, is still having a 5d relationship with person A. because they are not in a 3d state, they are not aware that they are only in a 5d state. and person A doesn’t know that they were ever in a 5d state to begin with. so, what happens is this: just like we would go with our friend to the grocery store, following them in 3d form, we are then following them everywhere in 5d form after they shift out of 3d form. that relationship or connection is still active, unless we appropriately release it or break up with it. again, this depends on the nature of the preexisting relationship. I have some patients who had horrendous familial relationships and those other parties died and the patient received some of the most tremendous relief ever – there are more factors involved as to why, and how much resolution they were able to get prior to the death, but it can work in a myriad of ways depending on that pre-existing relationship. when we follow someone into 5d AFTER they have left 3d and we do not KNOW we are following them, then we have subconsciously agreed to GO WITH THEM. this is akin to dying! person A described a horrific internal death. now, part of this was to prompt their own spiritual awakening and ascension process. but the reason itself is irrelevant to what was actually taking place. what was taking place was a serious cording issue. it is an issue when we 1) don’t know what “it” is and 2) don’t know how it works.
person A had an excellent response not only to the information, but to the uncording we did and the subsequent conversation. due in part to their incredibly high intellect and analytical skills, they were able to digest some physics-based research to support the information I provided in the session relative to what they were experiencing. for person A, science made sense. however, the physical symptoms they experienced while with me were undeniable. when we experience something we can not see, hear or compute, it is undeniable. there was a synchronous harmony to the “work” that person A and I did, and their 5d connection. there was not only immediate relief in the emotional and psychic sphere, but there overall life began to change as well as this event of person A1 dying served to ignite. this was a true gift of a death and rebirth for person A. it was a multifold session, as they all are.
in conclusion to my session with person A, I will reiterate that any relationship that we have takes shape in both 3d and 5d. and depending on the nature of that relationship, it will affect us vastly once one party leaves 3d. it is important to understand 5d and beyond. because my patient and person A1 were SO VERSED in 5d WHILST in physical 3d form, the gravity of their continued relationship after person A1 died in 3d was remarkable. a LARGE part of person A’s makeup, almost down to the physical 3d vessel, went WITH person A1 when they died in 3d. this isn’t incredibly common. but when it happens, it is one for the books.
person B was/is a corporate litigator. again, a person with a logical, analytical mind. likely no time for woo woo. in fact, I have no time for woo woo. it just so happens that I was made with a fabric that interprets and sees beyond 3d. I didn’t ask for this (well maybe in another life I did, I don’t remember asking for it in this life!) but I also couldn’t leave it to the wayside. it is now thankfully serving a purpose. anyhow, I identify strongly with the logical and analytic mind. which is probably why 99% of my patients are doctors, lawyers, bankers and tech developers. person B came to me with a serious health condition. I never know anything about someone prior to seeing them – in fact it is a request I make of them over the phone. the day of person B’s session, a part of my body felt SO intense to me. when person B came in, it was revealed that they were deep in the throes of a nearly terminal illness (right where my body was acting intensely) — for the second time in their life! after some intuitive digging, I made an immediate connection: the initial illness that was “beaten” came at a time when person B’s B1 (B1 is the person close to B who died) got very sick. as soon as person B1 became ill, there was a direct impact and correlation to person B. and a few years later when person B1 died, person B’s nearly terminal illness came back — at a 3% chance of recurrence! first, I had to find out who person B1 even was — because this was NOT the reason person B came to me in the first place. but, my intuition told me that the nature of person B’s relationship to person B1 was the root cause of their “illness”. (by the way, illness and disease happen to different people for DIFFERENT REASONS – that is another blog). the purpose of person B’s illness was actually to identify it’s cause — and transmute such.
as I was sitting with person B I felt a very strong tie to person B1. no, I do not talk to the dead. at least not in that way. but I knew immediately that there was a direct connection to their relationship with person B1 as far as their “problem” was concerned. the case was that person B had a lot of unresolved conflict with person B1. person B had pedestaled person B1. whitewashed them to the point of not being capable of doing any wrong. they were also overly corded to person B1. person B1 was hinging upon and from person B’s energy field (see my blog on cording and such to explain how people can feed off one another — dead or alive by the way). so, when person B1 got sick years ago, SO DID PERSON B. when person B1 died, SO DID PERSON B. person B described feeling overly responsible for the death of person B1, and that is (not ironically at all) when person B found out they were again facing a terminal illness. with a less than 3% chance! obviously there was something deeper going on here. this is what I like to refer to as spiritual crime-solving — finding out why something like this is happening. person B was not meant to die, but rather to resolve their relationship to person B1 — because it was STILL continuing in 5d! like person A, I explained to person B the mechanics of 5d. person B understood the physics of such, because every time I explained something their body would go off with confirmation signals. these are the 5d pieces of communication and “information” that we get when we are overly logical and nearly refuse to make sense of that which we can not see. there was enough confirmation for person B to “buy” my rationale, and so we continued on with the work. from a strictly psych standpoint, I was able to see the true nature of the relationship between person B and person B1, and I could see that it actually was NOT all roses. and, because it was not all roses, person B made an unconscious agreement to go WITH person B1! person B even stated out loud “I vowed out loud at person B’s death that I did not deserve to live any longer”. so now we had two things going on; 1) person B was over corded to person B1, and person B1 was still feeding off of person B in the ethereal or 5d realm! and 2) person B didn’t know what pieces of that relationship needed to be resolved, and person B also didn’t know that there was an ongoing imbalanced relationship occurring at that very moment in 5d! like person A, we cleaned up a lot with info and understanding. I treated person B as if person B1 was still here and we worked through the nuances of their relationship. it made such clear sense to person B that person B1’s illness and death had a direct correlation and red flag message for person B. the fact that person B’s illnesses were timed so perfectly gave person B chills. we cleaned up person B’s old interpretation of their relationship and were able to look at the cold hard facts of how things REALLY were. in addition, person B’s new understanding of 5d too them to a place where they were able to treat their CORDING to person B1 as if it were occurring in the 3rd dimension. like person A, the next day person B felt tremendous relief from the relationship that was still going on, but was now healthy and actually acknowledged in a higher dimension.
there we have two different people (both over the age of 45, by the way) with two completely different backgrounds and two different genders. each person was unaware of 5d, and how the death of their loved ones continued to carry on. I consider this information vital. we all “lose” people in 3d, but the thing is that we don’t lose them at all. and until we understand the nuances of 5d world and our respective relationship to said 3d dead person, it may torment us. we may feel like we are mourning more than we should be (when in fact yes, we are mourning more than we should be because we aren’t really missing them – we are missing the piece of ourselves that went with them!) and we may feel like we are not fully present — which we can only regain by understanding where and how we exist at all times. we are more than 3d physical matter.