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    I once heard someone say "as a woman your one resp I once heard someone say "as a woman your one responsibility as you age is to not get bitter" - I marveled at that statement and was curious what that would mean over time. Would it relate to spinsters in particular? Unhappily married women? Women who had kids and didn't want them? Women who didn't have kids? Women with unfulfilled career or creative dreams?
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My entire life people have said to me with great wonder and intrigue "you're so laid back..." - I heard it as recently as a few months ago from a type A woman who wanted to work with me outside of Healing Elaine. I could tell my nature made her feel defensive. Why? She is a woman over 30, seems to "have it all" yet she walks with bitterness...
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Bitterness comes from two things but can manifest as an excuse on the material plane: unhealed childhood wounds (perfectionism and control issues) and lack of faith in God (which translates to fear). This shows up differently for women than men, with the latter typically isolating and becoming 100% emotionally unavailable - however both genders struggle with a key thing: vulnerability
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Unhealed wounds and lack of faith in God manufacture control freaks - conflated with the term type A; and as you age it gets worse until you lose something precious to you
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Women with this issue become men - controlling their husbands and friends, not even noticing how off-putting it is. Typically their outlet was fast paced boss babe career but even that can no longer contain what needs to be fixed - this is why, generally speaking, married women with children have a better chance of not becoming bitter; though I've still seen it when they lack vulnerability which you think would be a requisite for marriage and babies
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Bitterness depletes women of their femininity. As we age we can become more set in our ways, but that should be a container for flexibility and ease - not rigidity and control
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If you've made it to a certain age and become even more relaxed, bravo. If you're content in life you've been vulnerable enough to take all the risks that got you wherever you are now, carefree and unbothered
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Bitterness is a choice - amplified by unmet needs or needs met out of fear
    The last of its kind - cc @mosseri why is your tea The last of its kind - cc @mosseri why is your team blocking this post and the prior two from visibility and engagement? 4 account interactions?? Per usual the stats are a joke but far worse than usual. Who is continuing to give you orders to censor my work and company name? cc @kenpaxtontx
    Loyalty - the most important quality in any and al Loyalty - the most important quality in any and all of my relationships with people
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Few things are more despicable and reprehensible than disloyalty in the face of someone who's only ever been good to you
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I can move past mistakes, transgressions, ego, mortal sin, judgements, very different ways of living and thinking, and misunderstandings - but never disloyalty
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Loyalty is a sign of a strong person who won't flip flop in sense of self and this is one reason you want them around
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Disloyal people blow around like the wind based on what suits them - take the plandem*c for example...
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90% of my clients and colleagues as of 2020 were left wing and many of them brainwashed by the great lie that year. That said, many did not agree with me but they didn't discard me and vice versa...of thousands I count a handful of people I considered friends who turned their backs because the "media" told them to. Guess what? Those people have achieved nothing for themselves in life...whereas others who've achieved a great deal and disagreed with me STOOD by me still and even spoke up about my cen$orship; some who disagreed with me helped me more than I could ever write or say publicly...these are highly loyal people and exactly what I thought we founded our relationship on
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Magic is created through loyalty when good people stick together - and great evil is cast upon those who're disloyal totally unprompted...changing their "opinion" of someone overnight over something as fickle and nefarious as politics or the latest media stunt
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The greatest thing I've ever done with myself is put my soul on the line and work with thousands of people who base their loyalty on the soul and core human intention. Through this work I've also met the best lawyer who I consider a friend, who is one of the most loyal of all - any of these people could've walked away from me at any time. And then ironically due to my cen$orship I went out on a limb meeting strangers on the internet who seem to understand loyalty in the way I do...some of them becoming actual real life friends in tandem with keeping me alive with a virtual footprint as I was being crushed in other ways
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Loyalty above all things.
    This morning it finally clicked for me as to "why" This morning it finally clicked for me as to "why" New York Post ran a pseudo hit piece on me in 2018 with a made up quote and a completely doctored photo of my face

They'd reached out about my kids program and I'd worked with all sorts of challenged kids and adults in my life - you can read about the program on my website

I agreed to let them shoot me for the article and decided on a space I'd rented for workshops - the people who ran it were always nice to me so I thought doing press there would benefit them too

What didn't occur to me is the workshop space was run by superlibs - and at the same time, a bunch of NYC parents were out there trying to make their kids trans. I didn't know about these "trends" - I was busy as heck working and didn't follow corners of social media

When the reporter Lauren Steussy made up a quote I never said about kids being "energy monsters" and the photo department doctored my face I could not understand why. Now I get it

The front desk manager at the woke building warned me "The Post is conservative, be careful" - and I thought "excellent! I voted Trump so I'll be in good hands!" But for whatever reason, someone at The Post assumed that I, too, was woke. All they had to do was ask how I voted

Woke culture is destroying everything and it never occurred to me until this morning that this is likely the reason for that hit piece. I wrote my own article about people who can't see the 2020 forest for the trees and how they are your greatest liability - it sums up much of what I'm saying, and it's sad:
https://healingelaine.substack.com/p/people-who-can-not-see-the-2020-forest

While The Post is clearly to blame, I learned my own lesson about how the media game is played and how detrimental it can be to surround yourself or do business with people caught up in woke culture - no matter how nice they've been to you

On the bright side I was important enough to have a hit piece run about me and for that I should feel proud and grateful. Below is my article summary and the correction the writer told me they "couldn't" make:

https://healingelaine.com/2018/12/04/healing-elaine-in-the-new-york-post-thank-yous-thoughts-significant-edits/
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    The #1 Hallmark of a demonized person is incredibl The #1 Hallmark of a demonized person is incredible knowledge akin to wisdom (experience), paired with absolutely zero real world achievement
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