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how to forgive whilst simultaneously not re-entering a toxic, dangerous or abusive dynamic

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    "Self-embodiment can not be taught" ➕ healingela "Self-embodiment can not be taught" ➕ healingelaine.substack.com
    This is 100% accurate. When women do not feel safe This is 100% accurate. When women do not feel safe, because they are not cherished or respected, they become men
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Years ago I dated a man who was always too busy for me, but not too busy to benefit from me building his entire career through being there whenever he needed. Over time I became more and more masculine. There were no proper dates or designated "us" time as he'd come to take me for granted. He was essentially using me to get ahead in life while I was left with no energy and my career stalled...
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When we broke up, my entire life began and his flatlined - because he was a taker and I was a giver (note: this dynamic is anatomically OPPOSITE to the natural laws of biology). I began going out with men who actually overpowered me again (thank God) and I had to re-learn what it meant to receive...it was clear how different I was on those dates or courtships even if I didn't choose them as partners
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Many of us grew up with absent or emotionally or physically abusive male "care takers". These assholes set us up to fall for men who do absolutely nothing for us, even though we know better intellectually
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A red flag to look for if you are dating is your masculine nature - is it turned up? If so, you're not safe. No matter what things look like on the surface. Do not ignore it when you lose your softness - something is amiss and it's not you (unless you continue on this path)
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A safe man in general, is very generous, makes you feel appreciated, protected, cherished and seen - and not just because you can do things for him. A safe man doesn't need you - he wants you. There is a difference.
    "Celestial litigation in the face of broken soul c "Celestial litigation in the face of broken soul contract" - healingelaine.substack.com
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    healingelaine.substack.com 📖 "Pride Cometh Befo healingelaine.substack.com
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"Pride Cometh Before The Fall"
    One of the most valuable things to come of the las One of the most valuable things to come of the last few years is the friendships (mostly work ones) that got even stronger even in the face of completely different beliefs (yes I'm talking about the insane bio weapon for the election and the needle of poison and other general truths)
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Even though some people had opposite or very different beliefs than mine, they were never personally offended or vice versa. Some have since landed at what I said from the beginning (no surprise there), others are getting there and then others may never get there
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However at the helm of each relationship of non-offended people, there is love and respect and an ease in talking about things without chaos and drama. The best part is, the people who came to my side and conclusions didn't cast themselves out of my life for some media lie (and I would never cast someone out for what they believe! How stupid! I may call them stupid but I would not throw them away!)
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Beliefs are not always values, but they can and do turn into them. We are gifted with the connection with others to negotiate those beliefs so that we land on the values properly. Getting there looks different for each person
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I heard from other "healers" (and I said this before in another post) that they lost half their clients because they "came out" with their truth...well those clients never knew you
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Everyone I work with knows I tell it straight. I consider it a total disservice and waste and disrespect of my time and theirs not to. That's never going to change. Sometimes that offends people for a moment. The people who choose to be offended never cared about the truth in the first place. Being offended means you're in denial and lying to yourself about something. Being hurt is different from being offended
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This post is also to say how much I appreciate my clients from so many years ago who've circled back around to work with me. Though I've always been a "one and done" healer, I recognize some can't find therapists (90% of them are certifiably nuts) and I'm happy to fill in unique spaces
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If you cast yourself out of my sphere and regret it now, you can always reach out. Unless you did something really ugly 😆
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