victim consciousness is born from trauma. we experience this in different ways, and at different times. some of us experience […]
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everything that you are doing and going through now is preparing you for where you want to be
“you’re scattered”; “you need to choose one vocation”; “pick a focus”…I used to hear these things ALL OF THE TIME. […]
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being a martyr will kill you
many years ago I went to a Shaman. it was before I fully launched Healing Elaine®, and it was around […]
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new Healing Elaine® prerequisite for any and all services (including workshops, etc)
in 2003-2004 I discovered two important people. one of them is Dr. Caroline Myss, and the other author M. Scott […]
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why pedophiles molest, the recent headline news of such, and my own experience
while much of what I write about IS in fact heavy, or could be considered to be heavy by some, […]
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how to forgive whilst simultaneously not re-entering a toxic, dangerous or abusive dynamic
it sounds like a paradox to most: forgive in order to become free; versus forgive in order to re-enter (hence […]
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suicidal people often do not appear “suicidal”
typically when we think of the word suicidal, we think of depression. we think of self-harm. and I will say […]
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one of the best days of my life was when I realized that someone else’s behavior has nothing to do with me.
a few years ago, I re-entered therapy for a couple of years. I had never had a steady therapist before. […]
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when joy re-enters
I touched on the broad strokes of this concept in my recent instagram post. many of us have been working […]
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if you have recently and repeatedly been hurt, disappointed or betrayed, I have good news for you
if you have recently and repeatedly been hurt, disappointed or betrayed, I have good news for you.
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